Attachment Theory: Beginning the Journey to Secure Attachment


Friday, November 15, 2019 at 7:30 PM – 9:45 PM PST

The Center SF
548 Fillmore Street
San Francisco, CA


You learned about the two main types of insecure strategies --avoidance and anxiety-- and the patterns of behavior that express these insecurities through a relationship to needs that seem to come from a deep and young part of yourself.

This class is about beginning the journey to a more mature relationship to needs. A journey to self-care and to interdependence. A journey to a secure attachment style.

Secure people, when you notice them, have the uncanny ability to create a life that seemingly *just*works*. But underneath this peaceful life lies a great ability to engage with their needs and the needs of others in a healthy dance where no-one --not even themselves-- is ever forgotten. What is this ability? What is this dance? This is what the class will begin to show you.

In this class, you will learn...
To locate yourself more clearly on the map of attachment styles.
To recognize your insecure patterns more readily, and to share them without shame with the people you engage with.
How to begin to plan your journey to a secure attachment style.
Somatic, emotional, physical, social, spiritual, and primal practices to develop in order to grow your emotional balance.
To answer the question "What do a secure person do?" with clarity when in a difficult situation.
To identify who are the secure people in your life and who are your anchors
How to find a good coach/counselor/therapist with a focus on attachment theory
Practices for the individual and for couples to anchor/stabilize each other, and the downsides/reduction of control/freedom of being in intimate relationships

Philippe Lewis runs Exquisite Love Coaching, open sourcing his bits of clarity and wisdom with the whole wide world. Philippe is a relationship educator. He works with men and women to support them in making better choices for themselves and each so they can become fully sovereign human beings through the practice of connection, trust, intimacy, love, and consent. He is also the happy father of a 7 year old boy who teaches him how to surrender to love a little bit more each day.

When we come together, wisdom and support naturally arise, and this is how SHIFT and GROWTH happen! Welcome to the new paradigm of living and relating. Welcome to the path of Exquisite Love.

Cost: $30